Birds don't much care about gender

Male or female-- if it's green or blue with a grey face and feathery, it's fair game.
what gets funny is when we have these handfed babies, who have never really learned what they're SUPPOSED to do, so they have to figure it all out themselves. Usually, the male regurges to the female to show that he's a good provider, and its all taken from there. The female never regurges for the male. But my Sassy (definitely a female-- she's smaller and smoother all over) often regurges to Rico (definitely male. he's broader and rougher of feathers). And rico just LOVES that! He sees nothing wrong with that.
But I'm not going to let them breed because they're MY companions. I like having birds I can fluff and hold and be friends with. Also, I dont want to worry about Sassy getting eggbound or calcium deficient.