QUOTE (Joysmom @ Jun 19 2007, 04:08 PM)

Many birds are "one person" bird and you can't just assume they will bond with another person so easily. I hope it all works out for you...keep us posted...
Rebecca
Hello, I am also a new owner of a Quaker Parrot and have been watching this fourm for a bit. I recently lost a budgie who lived a very good life (lived past 10 yrs) and wanted to upgrade to a larger bird. I was recommended to a Quaker Parrot because they are easier to care for than most larger exotic birds and LOVE to interact. Fortunately, I have experience with working with other birds and work at two wildlife rehab facilities that care for injured brids of prey and reptiles, so I am a bit prepared of the responsibilties I will be facing.
I had a budgie who was strongly connected to me that while leaving her at home for college, she did NOT get along with other family members. My mom was the only one who agreed to care for the bird and even noted that she was depressed. The bird literally acted like I was her soul mate and eventually had a false pregnancy. As a result, I had to sneak my bird into my student apartment, which does not allow pets and I thankfully got away with it because my building mates and the RA did not care about the pet issue and one of them had a dog that made more noise, so the parakeet was not noticable. I also had a reliable roommate who promised to let me know if she had problems with the bird instead of snitching to the apartment director or to another RA behind my back.
Please keep this in mind: when you go off to college you have NO idea what your living situation will be like. I got lucky and worked out backup plans if neighbors or my roommate if they had problems with my bird.
College changes everything. Dorms and student apartments owned by universities do not allow pets (you may even be lucky to get away with a fish at some universities). A bird who squaks often will be discovered and like some people here warned, birds have their own personalities.
They do imprint and imprinted birds are the most difficult to care for. Some students have taken the initative step of sneaking their pets in because they were homesick and pets cure that, or they've had similar problems as I had with my bird. Unfortunately, when they were caught they paid the penalty of having their animals removed or having to call home to have parents come get their pets immediately. I was
not prepared that my Budgie would live a longer life until I reached college- in fact I had her since I was in 7th grade. Just remember that a Quaker lives longer than a Budgie, so this IS a life long commitment. Since I will be out of college within a year and have an idea where I will be living once I graduate (already found roommates to live with after I leave), keeping a parrot would not be an issue with me.
Therefore, schooling (going to college), is a major issue with raising a bird or any kind of pet that has attachment issues. I agree with Cantab that you will need some support in raising a bird if there are times you are unable to take care of it. It's very important that your bird interacts with other people and that there is someone who is willing to help you when you need it. If your parents are not willing to help you out then you should not get an animal that has a long life span. My father hated the bird and wanted to get rid of it, but my mother was more empathetic and did her best to take care of it until I decided what was best for the bird (and for me too).