My cockatiel Cooper is our little talker. He makes Buttons look like a mime in comparison. Anyhow, he has this cute, scratchy high voice and says all kinds of cute things, whistles songs, makes kissy noises etc. Now as it happens, I've gone to great lengths to make my birds interact with my hubby and other family members. Cooper has been pretty shy in the past. Just lately however, he will sit on Jeff's shoulder and talk and whistle. I was shocked to death when my dad came over and Cooper did the same thing for him. For me...the one who feeds, waters, scritches and talks to him the most... he says exactly NADA. Nothing. Zip. Zilch. What is up with that? It's just not fair. I love to hear him talk and whistle. It makes my heart happy when his little voice pops up with some remark (recently he's learning "walk the plank"). Does anyone know why he won't talk to me but he will to not only Jeff but even my dad, who is a virtual stranger to Coop? Grrrrr.

This might not be the case with your bird but I have noticed some birds have preferences in voices. Some prefer womens voices to men and others prefer mens voices to women. I am guessing your bird might be more responsive to a masculine voice.

I have been reading some research on birds and women on other issues too where certain species of birds especially cockatoos who prefer not to interact with women during their menstral cycles as well. Which I find bizarre too but i keep reading about it lol.

I think some birds just prefer some people. I have a tiel who is absolutely in LOVE with my dad! Whenever he comes around (usually about twice a year) she instantly becomes hormonal and sticks her tail feathers high in the air for him It's really too funny.

Try not to take it personally, he may change as time goes on.

Thanks guys. I'll try not to be upset. Cooper is my favorite little fella. He was my first "big" bird and he has taught Buttons all her words and songs. I just want him to love me too. Here's hoping he decides to love me best again...soon.