http://jeffrey-cox.memory-of.com/ Feel free to sign my guestbook. There are also pictures of my son and also his story



My son Jeff died on this day 8 years ago. My memories are now happy memories. Many of you have been on this site for the last 3 years I have been coming here and have helped me immensely with your kind words when this date comes around. I appreciate everybody here because most of my family is gone and the ones that are left hardly ever say anything anymore. I have to keep my son's memory alive or it will be like he was never here.

Another year has flown so fast and I know you miss Jeff so much. No words will ever make it ok for you but remember I am a good listener and also I do miss talking to you.
I am keeping you, your husband and daughter in my thoughts.
Lots of hugs and love,
IMPy

Sandi,

As you know I'm new on the forum and this is the first time I've seen Jeff's website. I read the entire story, and it brought me to tears. Funny how you can know so little about someone and still wish you had the chance to meet them. I can only imagine what you would give for the chance to see Jeff again, it is truely beyond my minds reach what it would be like to lose a child. We love you Sandi, and thank you so much for keeping Jeff's memory alive, the page is a beautiful tribute.

Love,
Jessy

I'm sorry for your loss Sandi - It's hard to believe it's been another year. Many hugs sent to you this day, as I know the anniversary of losing a lost one is very hard. Tomorrow is the day I lost my mother and I know how sad I've been with this approaching. Think good thoughts and memories - it does help.
Hug from Nancy and Bubba

Losing a child is the worst thing that could happen to a parent. Sending you lots of healing thoughts, Sandi.

Sending lots of hugs to you and your family today Sandi.

I do not know the terrible ache of losing a child but my prayers are with you that you find peace.

(((HUGZ)))

*Hugs*

Sandy, my eyes are filled with tears of joy and sorrow for you. I can only begin to imagine how much you miss your son, and I can't pretend that a few nice words will ever change this situation for you. I can, however, lend an ear and a shoulder whenever you may need either.

I'm so sorry! Your in my thoughts and prayers this evening!

Oh Sandi, I am sorry for your loss. ((((Sandi)))) hugs for you.

My heart is crying for your loss. I can not even beging to imagine the feelings of losing a child....I can only say may God Bless and keep you, your husband and your daughter safe from harm. And give you the strength to get through this day and the days to follow until you can see Jeff again.((((Wing Hugs))))

God bless you Sandi and bring you comfort.

Thinking of you Loosing a child is something no parent could ever recover from I am just sending you some big hugs to show I understand and care...

(((((HUGGS)))))) My dear friend Sandi, you know you can call anytime..

My thoughts are with you Sandi. You are not alone tonite. Everyone here on the forum are thinking of you and sending you healing prayers. God Bless.

My thoughts and prayers are with you Sandi, hubby and your daughter....May God bless and comfort you during this time in your life....

Thank you everyone for you kind words. It is a very mixed day.......

Sandi, my heart hurts for you. I know you carry permanent sadness in your heart. I hope you always carry the thought that Jeff wouldn't want you to be sad. He would want you to smile and live with the happy memories you all made as a family. H'e have you to laugh at the silly things you did and not dwell on the sorrow.

A very nice lady who had just lost her husband told me that when she tried to talk about him, people changed the subject because they thought that would be best for her. She said it was not best for her, she WANTED to talk about him! It does help heal the heart if you can say what you want to say and get it out. If you ever need me, PM me your phone # and I will call you. I have free long distance all the time and I am a good listener. I'd never try to stop you from saying whatever you need to say!

BIG HUGS!!!!!

Jo

Sandi
My thoughts are with you.
Debra

My thoughts are with you.I am so sorry!

Sandi,
Thinking of you at this most difficult time. Jeff was beautful from what seemed inside and out. Your tribute site to him is probably the loveliest I've ever seen.
{{{{HUGS}}}}}
tikileahsmom

Oh Sandi my Heart too goes out to you.
I can feel what youre saying! Jeff what
handsome young man. I believe the Lord
has a place for us all and for the tender
hearted who were so hurting! So many huggs
out to you Sandi.