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Photoguy77
I came in from work today, and found my sweet Mojo passed away on the bottom of her cage. I have no idea as to what caused it. She had been lively, in good health, and very happy lately.

This is so painful....my best friend of the last 8 years gone. I did kiss her goodnight, and did the normal routine, but somehow i still have this huge hole like something was left undone or unsaid. I know its weird to say that about a bird....but she was SO special to me.

Im a wreck right now, my holidays are ruined. Just wanted to get it off my chest I guess.
SimplicityAltered
I am so sorry to hear about Mojo. I will keep you in my thoughts it is hard to lose a loved one even more around the holidays. (((Hugs)))
LuvMyHarley1
Oh no----I am so so sorry to hear of Mojo's passing...I can imagine how awful this is for you now.....I do hope you consider a necropsy to find out what happened as it may help another birdie one day.....

My condolences to you.... sad.gif
Eggie83
That is so sad. I am sorry for your loss sad.gif
Skipper
I am so sorry about Mojo... sad.gif will you be able to do an autopsy to try and find the cause?
Quincy's Slave
I am so sorry, my thoughts are with you.
xerxeys mama
My heart aches for you. Im in tears as i read this. sad.gif Sending you prayers and extra hugs for ya. Im sorry about Mojo.
sgtcluck
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sadness. I am so sorry that this has happened.
Cantab
Very sorry to here about Mojo, my condolences go to you and your family.
beanersdabirdie2
Awwwe I am so very sorry this has happened.I wish I knew the magic saying to make it better but there is none.Only time will help.Again I am sooo very sorry for your loss of your baby
Quakermom
oh my I am so sorry about your little mojo, i know the feeling, youare hurting bad right now, but maybe in her own way she did not want you there to see her pass. I know you feel as if there were more to say to her, one more hug or something else, but right now she is in another place. I hope you feel better.

Sending you hugs.
Cheekys mum
Thats so sad! Im really sorry that he died. My sincerest condolences.
~Pippin's Mom~
I am so sorry for your loss. There are so many things that we don't understand when it comes to a pet or someone we love and they pass away. I know you gave Mojo wonderful 8 years and he or she knew they were loved and still is love by you.

If you need to talk or anything just give me a pm and I'll be here for you! Take care of yourself and I will pray for you to find peace and comfort in the Lord.
Nancy and Bubba
I'm so sorry for your loss - my deepest condolances during your time of sorrow.
Teresas
Sending you loving thoughts at this very painful time. Mojo lives on within your heart and memories.That is her gift to you.
Kyla+Santi
I completely understand your pain, I experienced the exact same situation with my last bird. I hope you feel better soon and I know Mojo will live on in your heart
Kyla
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lucyjujumom
I am so sorry for your loss!
Photoguy77
Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers! Ive lost birds before and have dealt with it very well. But this lil sweetie was my heart. My first bird, and a gift from my ex girlfriend. She stole my heart from the very first day i held her....just seems so unfair to lose her so early without warning. The Holidays will be tough, cause i always included her in opening gifts, and other Xmas traditions. ohmy.gif(

But I will get through this eventually. Again, thank everyone for all the kind words.
tjbird
So sorry about MoJo. I just wanted to say that I don't think it is at ALL odd for you to feel the way you do towards a bird. These Quakers are heart snatchers in the extreme. Just thinking about something happening to Polly or Buddy makes me feel absolutely heartsick and physically ill. Many here understand the depth of your affection. Grieve, and then go on, knowing you gave MoJo a good life.

Trish wub.gif Polly & Buddy
~BettyK~
So sorry for your loss sad.gif....((((huggs)))))
Casey's Mom
I am so sorry for your loss. sad.gif My thoughts are with you during this difficult time...

Big hugs.
CharlieandDee
I feel so bad for you at a time like this. It is so hard to loose a beloved pet. I've been through it before. It hurts your heart so bad. I hope with time the sorrow won't be so bad. Mojo would want you to still have a Merry Christmas. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
NCVon
Wish I could offer more...but sending hugs and healing thoughts as you work through your grief. Not sure if you have seen this on here before but I have a copy hanging in a frame.

Lend Me A Bird
"I will lend to you for a while, a bird", God said.
For you to love him while he lives and to mourn for him when he is dead.

Maybe for twelve or fourteen years, or maybe for two or three.
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?

He'll bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief,
You'll always have his memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise that he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below I want this bird to learn.

I've looked the whole world over in search of teachers true.
And from the folks that crowd life's land, I have chosen you.

Now will you give him all your love; nor think the labor vain;
Nor hate me when I come to take my lovely bird again?

I fancied that I heard them say, "Dear Lord, thy will be done,
for all the joys this bird will bring, the risk of grief we'll run."

Will you shelter him with tenderness?
Will you love him while you may?
And for the happiness you'll know forever grateful stay?

But should I call him back much sooner than you've planned;
Please brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.

If, by your love, you've managed, my wishes to achieve,
In memory of him you've loved; be thankful; do not grieve.

Cherish every moment of your feathered charge.
He filled your home with songs of joy the time he was alive.
Let not his passing take from you those memories to enjoy.

"I will lend to you, a Bird", God said, and teach you all you have to do.
And when I call him back to heaven, you will know he loved you too.

(Author Unknown)
Friedsoup
Ok in the when you think you've had it bad collum A good friend of mine has lost sooo much this year in early spring his Yellow nape died he had had him for more than 12yrs then this summer his mother died from hospital stupidity this fall his new Blue and Gold killed his peach faced lover bird he had had for 6 years (she was flighted and flew into the big birds cage) then the Great green wing Macaw (He's rescued from a police call the owner had died with the bird on his arm and wouldn't let the cops near him.) died in the middle of having her beak trimmed
he'd owned her for 8 years. He owns a pet store but still all his losses this year have me at a loss to even express my concern. So I will say to you and him and all of us Live as we love and Love as we live and so we will be known and remembered.
Dark Angel
I am so sorry for your loss. I know no words I say will bring you comfort but I will keep you in my thoughts. Fly free mojo!
Hugs
IMPy
Flock Mom
Very sorry for your loss, that is just terrible especially so unexpected like that sad.gif (((hugs))) to you and your kids on this Christmas
Prettybird1212
Im so sorry. 3 of my keets passed on the other day when I was gone. We live in Okla. and our power was out and we used candles not even knowing that they were being poisoned. I just figured it out today its soooo grieving. Im sorry about Mojo, hope this makes you feel better.
Andie's Mom
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. All the words we have to offer can't ease the heartache you are feeling; but time will. It's always amazing to me how your heart can ache so much for these little creatures.

It's never easy to lose a loved one and its even worse when it happens during the holidays; just know that you are in our thoughts and that you aren't alone in this. Remember too that Mojo is now flying free and will be looking over you and sending his love back to you too.

Either that or he'll be pooping on your head like a seagull smile.gif wink.gif

I know, that sounds mean, but hopefully it made you smile just a bit and help lighten the situation just a bit.

Take the time you need to grieve and then maybe you'll be able to find a new bird to fill the hole in your heart that Mojo's passing has left. He wouldn't want you to be sad. Think of all the fun times you've had, and when you open presents, tear one open extra hard for Mojo. He'll be watching.

Big hugs being sent your way!
Sandi Kiwis Mom
I am so sorry for your loss. Fly free little Mojo..............
ruffles momma
I am so so sorry for your loss. I hope you can have a neocrospy performed to find out what may have happened. I have lost 2 in the last 2 years. One was from natural causes and one from eating glass. If I had not had the neocrospy I would not have known and would still be feeding with glass bowls.

I understand them being your best friend my birds are my life!
tikileahsmom
Oh how heartbreaking. I'm so sorry
{{{{HUGS}}}}
tikileahsmom
Esther C
So sorry for your loss. It's so sad. Hugs going to you.
homeforever
I'm so so sorry to hear of Mojo's passing!! My TAG Selena, the love of my life, passed the same exact way just a few weeks ago!! And I lost my "other son", Peekaboo the QP just a few months ago after a tragic cage accident!!

I'm hurting right along with you, and hopefully in time, the huge hole in our hearts will heal, and leave only the good memories of our time with them!

Blessings and hugs,
Rowena
mhathcoat
I am so sorry for your loss! My holidays were also ruined by the loss of my new baby Stella. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Twin2L
Photoguy,

I am sorry to read that you lost Mojo. It is clear that you loved her well and continue to. These birds are so special they claim us as their own and we lovingly share the journey with them. I know the loss is difficult, yet Grace will comfort you and you will sometimes "hear" her speak with you. She's free and happy and will patiently wait for you.


Peter

"as you do to the least of these, so do you to me". You loved Gods gift well.
cookiemom
Hugs, also for Rowena.
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