I just gave an update on how well Hank is doing, what a coincidence that a new twist has entered the picture.
When I got Hank, I didn't want another bird, nor did I really have room for him. But... I got him to get him in a better situation.
I spoke to a friend of mine who maybe wanted him early on, but we hadn't discussed it for awhile. Well... she called me this morning. Sadly, her dog got her lovebird last night. Needless to say, she is heartbroken.
She wants Hank now. I asked her what about the dog, and she assured me that the dog would be in a kennel when Hank is out, and she is going to use some alternate methods of training as well. I am somewhat comfortable that Hank would be safe, but it still makes me very nervous.
Add in the fact, that I of course have become quite attached. However, having him makes it nearly impossible for me to ever even leave for a night, let alone a weekend or vacation. My car will not hold 2 cages.
He is happy here, though he probably would get more attention there, being the only child. But what will another move do to him? This would be his 5th or 6th home in 4 years, and I sure don't want to break his little heart.
Thoughts?

Oh, Lisa, that's a toughie. I guess you need to decide if you want to keep him or not. And do think of yourself and your needs when you ponder the question. If you want to keep him then do it. But if you feel that it would be better off for you to have one less bird, then let him go.

I think that it will be easier for him to go to another home now, rather then in another 6 months when he becomes more attached to you. It's never fun to see a bird rehomed that many times, but you have to think of yourself too. Like I said, it would be better off for Hank if you were to rehome him now, rather then later on down the line. So you kinda have to make the decision as to whether you want him forever, or not.

Another thing to think about is, is she aware of his needs and issues? Does she know that she's got a lot of work ahead of her? And is she getting him for the right reasons?

I fully intend to quiz her up and down as far as Hank's needs are concerned. He does have some problems and she must be aware and capable of dealing with them appropriately.
Like I said, she thought she wanted him when I first got him, so it is not only because she is heartbroken now.
As far as me, I had almost resigned myself to the fact he was staying. Yet, I didn't know how I would make it work. I am going away the 23rd, and still have no clue what I am going to do with boarding 3 birds and 2 cages... then I have a weeks vacation planned in May. It is not often I have to leave them, but sometimes I do, and with the extra cage hauling, it really is a problem.
I have been crying just thinking about it, but it might really be best for him.
As for now, I am undecided. I sure love the little guy and want what is best.

I think Brook hit on a great idea! Like you said I would talk to her seriously about keeping the dog away from the bird so no more accidents, but ask her if she would like to care for Hank while you are gone and see if they hit it off? He might be too loud for her or not what she wants to handle by the end of the visit. And since she's a friend if it works out you would be able to visit him and see him when you wanted he wouldn't be out of your life entirely.

I think this is a perfect plan! See, that is why I came here!