I cant remember if i updated you allon the search for my birth mom Janet. I have found a few address and i posed on here about writing that dreaded letter. well i did the deed and it wasnt an easy one. luckly i have a dear friend who could help me edit the letter. so now i have posted them in the mail and now comes the hardest part paitence on waiting for a response. I know that it may be a while and I also know that a few of the address might not be the right Janet but in this case its a process of elimination. then once i have some results from there ill have to figure another way to get in contact with the judge who officiated the adoption. luckly my parents are very close friends with the Judge who signed my case. so this is the latest and yeah im like a school kid waiting for something in the mail besides the check ( hehe ).

Thank you for keeping us updated on what's happening. I just can't imagine what you're going through emotionally. I wish you well and hope there is a happy ending to this story.
I'll be praying for you and for Janet.

I wish you the best in your quest to find your biological Mother. My brother is adopted, his Bio Mom is acutally our cousin, my Grandfather and her Dad were brothers. My brother has always been told that he is adopted, and who is bio Mom is, she really isnt a very "good" person and he knows that as he has grown up watching the things she has done, (she has had at least 6 kids only keeping the last one, we know of at least 5 abortions and 2 miscarriages) He is now 24, married and has a 3 yr old lil boy of his own, and he is always saying that seeing how his Bio Mom and Dad were is the way he isnt going to be w/ his son! My parents were in their mid 40's when they adopted him and it was a struggle as he was born addicted to drugs but they have done a wonderful thing in giving him the life he would of never known w/ her!

yes your parents are wonderful for that. I never really considered the search until years later and out of respect for my adoptive parents for i love them so much but as an adoptee when you get older and you are away from your adoptive parents you want to find out about your roots and so fourth. my aparents always encouraged me to search for my birth mom but i never gave it a second thought until this year. so yeah lets see what happens from here. thanks for the well wishes.

Thanks for the update, I was just wondering how the search was going. Good luck!!! *Hugs*

Im really excited for you at this wonderful progress wow! I think down the line at some point you will have success with what youve said! huggs xx

I'm so excited for you and praying that all goes well and is a very happy event for all of you.
God bless you, Janet and all of your adoptive family.

Wishing you luck! Hope everything will end the way you want it to be!