I'm on an e-mail list for people owned by parrots (not just Quakers) and I've done other research and the consensus seems to be that you have to give your bird all sorts of stimulation beyond toys and playing with him or you're not doing right by him.
Clyde is manifestly NOT interested in such things as playstands. He plays with toys when left to his own devices in or on his cage, but if he's out of his cage, generally speaking, he wants to play with US. He'll fly to us if we don't come and get him, and if I walk by without picking him up, he holds up his little foot and sort of waves it at me, waiting for me to pick him up.

Of course, I can't resist that.

However, being a worrywart, I'm afraid that giving him toys and carrying him around the house and spending evenings sitting on the couch playing with him or serving as a human playstand isn't enough. I'm happy enough with this state of affairs. I WANT to hang out with him as much as I can. But I want HIM to be happy, too. He seems happy with things the way they are. He doesn't pluck or squawk or act bored. Does he need a playstand? He has shelves around the top of the dining room and a ladder to get up there if he wants to go up there and wander around, but he doesn't. He has a fake fig tree and sometimes he yanks the leaves off and drops them but he doesn't want to sit on it. He rejected the playstand I got for him (I'm hoping Bonnie will eventually decide she likes it, so it isn't just gathering dust -- she got a couple of his other rejected toys and likes those).
What do you think?