Today is a mixed day for me, but I also am grateful. I am grateful that I was able to spend 25 years with my Son Jeff. He was a great person. You can visit his memorial website at the link in my signature.

Grateful that my Mr. Kiwi came into my life in January of 2000 and now 9 years ago today is when my little Mr. Kiwi was hatched.

Happy BIRD-DAY, Mr. Kiwi!!

Happy Hatchday Mr Kiwi



Sandi, I know it's a hard day for you. Be blessed this day and know our arms ar wrapped around you with love.

Happy Hatch Day Mr. Kiwi!! Sandi, I visited your son's memorial web site....I can't even imagine what that would be like! I'm so sorry for your loss of your beloved son. I have 2 adult sons as well, and to lose one like that is just beyond my imagination. You are in my thoughts today.

Happy Hatch Day Kiwi

Thank you everyone.....Here is the website memorial for my Son.......http://jeffrey-cox.memory-of.com/About.aspx

You can go on there and light a Candle in his memory.....
Graduation Picture
he was such a cute baby!

Happy Hatchday Mr. Kiwi!!

Oh, Sandi! I had no idea what happened. Trust that your cherished son is close to you always. I lit a candle with a special message to Jeff.

Jen

HAPPY HATCHDAY KIWI!

Hugs Hugs & more Hugs to you all.

Happy Hatchday Mr Kiwi

Tricia

Happy Hatchday Kiwi

Try to think positive Sandi, i know this is a rough day for you and for the other forum members sometimes people don't know exactly what to say for fear of not saying the right thing? But that doesnt mean we aren't here and thinking of you .. sending tons of hugs to you...I'm so happy you've had your special lil fid all these years!

I just saw this post...I think it's sad you feel this way...this is the most caring forum I have ever visited and I think that we all do care. I try to at least read every new post and post on the ones that I feel like I have something to offer. I'll light a candle in his memory as well, this must be a really bittersweet day for you.

And I think that some people just don't know what to say...me included. I have been suicidal in the past and had I found a good method, I wouldn't be alive right now. I was literally living only for my pets and family at times and I can understand what your son was going through. If you want to talk please pm me I am here to listen and will offer what I can to ease your pain.

Happy Hatchday Mr Kiwi. and I am sending you hugs and I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers through this rough period.

Sandy: Please don't think that no one cares. Everyone does, but it is hard to know what to say. My grandson was due Christmas Day 2008, and was still born on the 27th. I can't even talk to my son about him with him getting broken up. it hurts me when I think I have hurt him, but I can't ever forget either. It is hard for others to know what to say, because they don't want to hurt you even more. I am so sorry for your loss, it is something you cannot ever get over. We all think our children will outlive us, unfortunately that isn't always so. There are not any answers.
You have my deepest sympathy, and all my hugs and warm thoughts.
Nancy

Oh Sandi please dont go what would this place be without you???!!! You are such a Pillar here!
I can only just inmigine your loss! But Love never dies...and he has only just "gone on ahead"
and is waiting in the Lords Infinate Love!
xooxox Janet

(I just think many ppl here are just in a hurry maybe sometimes...but it dosent mean they
dont care) huggs x

Happy 9th hatchday Kiwi.
Sandi I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. ((hugs))

Hello, Sandi. Your message brought tears to my eyes. I cannot imagine the pain that you must endure, past, present and future. I admire your courage and faith, and wish I could be as strong as you have. This forum would not be the same without you. I look for your posts whenever I log in, even tho I don't come here every day. I am lighting a candle in my heart, praying that you can continue to stay strong and forgive those that do not understand how to deal with this. We all love you.

Sandi, our arms are wrapped around you every year at this time, whether we post or not! We know how hard a day this is for you ... Jeff was such a handsome lad, it is such a shame that this world lost him so young.

Happy hatchday to Mr. Kiwi ...

and HUGZ to Mom on this bittersweet day ......

(((HUGZ)))

yeah, don't think we don't care because we all didn't respond right away! I for one haven't been on the site in a few days and just saw this post! And I agree that some people really don't know what to say, but that doesn't mean they don't care! We are all thinking of you and I hope you know we all care!

And happy hatch day to Mr. Kiwi too!

Stay positive!

Happy Hatchday Mr. Kiwi----and thinking of you Sandi.........

Thank you everyone! Mr. Kiwi got a very special dinner last night. It won't be long before we go visit our sons grave and he will get something special. Thank You once again!

happy hatchday kiwi and sandi I wish I could just run over and give you a big gigantic hug cyber hugs just dont seem the same but its all I have.
HUGS!!!!!!
IMPy

Happy Belated Hatchday Kiwi ..

In my thoughts Sandi
((((((HUGS))))))