QUOTE (spirery @ Nov 16 2008, 09:23 AM)

im still in two minds as what to do , i would REALLY like another as they are just so much fun,i wish i had got two at the same time but just didnt have the money. i just dont know how chester will react, i really dont want to lose the bond we have with him.
chester will react how chester will react. it's important that, if you decide to get another bird, to follow a few very important rules.
1. quarrantine the new bird from chester for a MINIMUM of 30 days. this really should not be negotiable. sometimes birds have an underlying issue that will come to the forefront because of the stress of the move. preferably separate airspaces, but separate floors or opposite ends of the house will suffice. not a lot of people have a separate, appropriate airspace for quarrantine purposes. during quarrantine, get new bird a well bird visit with your vet. continue with quarrantine regardless of birdy's vet results.
2. always tend to chester FIRST. first greeting, first feeding, first wake up, etc. chester is used to being top bird among the birds, and will appreciate remaining so. jealousy can manifest itself in different ways - my louie will come to the edge of his perch and squawk if i'm spending time with goofy, even if louie has had the bulk of my attention for the day. he's not gotten physically aggressive toward me because of it, but he sometimes puts on an act like he's really PO'd.
3. during quarrantine, when you spend time with the new addition, you need to change clothes and wash your hands before interacting with chester again.
4. keep in mind that the 2 birds may get along when you introduce them. or they may not. introduce them on neutral territory so one isn't feeling the need to defend his turf.
5. even IF they get along well, house them separately. there are members whose birds live well together and still are bonded to the humans, but you may find that birds housed together bond to each other and you can find yourself the outsider. it's been suggested that birds who are housed together lose their "pet" quality and can become more aggressive toward human interactions.
i think if you want another bird, and you are financially able to do it, and mentally prepared lol, why not? just take your time in choosing the new one to make sure you have a good fit with YOU. people sometimes get uptight about this, but never once in my life have i heard someone question having another child based on how their current child would react to a new baby. :: shrug :: just my 2 cents.
kris