Hi Connie,
I actually meant her Mom got her (the bird) as a baby.. there isn't a new baby in the house hehehe.
heheh <evil grin>... wouldn't be heartbroken if I was asked to keep her because I've gotten pretty attached to the little nudie

Can't see her Mom parting with her though.. she really does love her quite a lot.
I did suggest after doing some research that she try feeding the uncoloured pellets instead of the zupreem. She wasn't eating it here, so I gave her some tropican pellets. She wolfed them down like they were candy
So tomorrow after work I'm going to pick up a bigger bag.. her Mom says she's been on zupreem for a few years, and I read a number of different articles that referenced African Grey and Eclectus plucking issues that ceased within a few months of switching to a plain pellet. Also threw out the unshelled peanuts.. sheesh.. worry more about the fids than I ever had to worry about my kids
Her Mom came over last week, and she was fine and leaving the feathers alone. I'm hoping it's only because it was so hectic the other day.
We've agreed that Mom will visit her here, where they can sit and relax quietly together. If it goes ok..Great because I can't see telling her Mom that I think visitation should be cut out till she is fully feathered.
Of course if she plucks after her Mom has been to visit.. geez.. I don't even know what I'll say to my friend. She's pretty miserable without the little sweetie.
Thanks though for the idea.. will definitely keep an eye on how they react to each other and how she seems after her Mom leaves.
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Hi Mark,
it's much quieter in my place

There is just me and the fids here.. Her house has 2 teens, 2 dogs, a cat, and a few fids.. but that's nothing that is a new thing.. the household has grown over the years and the grey was ok with it.
I think it might be partly stress related (picking up from Mom), and hormones.
Time will tell

I'm just happy to have her here for as long as it takes to get her fully dressed, or open a clothing line for her.. either or I'm ok with it <grin>.